Articles From Our March, 2008 Newsletter


Program

Top of the morning to all! For this month’s meeting we are doing a little something different and hopefully, also, fun and informational as well. PFLAG/KC has invited four speakers that represent our community in different ways.
 
--Sarah Gillooly, the new Field Organizer for PROMO
--Allen Kahn, owner and facilitator for the LGBT Hotline
--Teddi Samuels, Executive Director of Save, Inc.
--Leo Walters, co-chair of Out of Equal
 
They will each speak, briefly, about their organizations, and we will have an opportunity to meet and chat with them. Our own David Whitner will serve as our MC for the Guest Speakers.
 
So come on out and meet these folks that work in our community, some are new faces and some are well known, and we will give them a big PFLAG/KC welcome.
 

From Our President

Hello again, everyone—will this weather EVER change? We moved west when we should have moved south—really far south! We’re not quite settled, but when you have all of your favorite things and folks around you, it always feels like home.
One of the latest programs that PFLAG has implemented is called Straight for Equality. I was so excited when the national office called to say they’d be in Kansas City to do a presentation for the local MetLife offices. They asked for my participation as a local PFLAG/KC representative, but mostly I just watched, listened and learned. What an exciting program. It pleases me to say that MetLife has a great diversity vision that includes, among other things, partner benefits. Jean Marie Navetta and Jody Huckaby presented the program that included a wonderful role playing game and some wonderful ways to be a straight ally. Their presentation was infused with facts and a healthy dose of humor! What impressed me most was that out of about two hundred MetLife employees, there were about fifty in attendance, all fully engaged.
Coming out as a straight ally has challenges all its own, but this brochure/program
can benefit even the most seasoned allies. A fresh a     approach never hurts.
Make sure you check it out at: www.straightforequality.org
                                                              JAMIE
 

Food For Thought
Oxnard, Ca. Feb. 13th 2008
Lawrence King, an 8th grade boy sits in his junior high school computer lab and is shot to death by a 14 year old boy, Brandon McInerney, in one of the most gruesome hate crimes that this country has ever seen. Lawrence had said publicly that he was gay and had been harassed by a group of schoolmates, including McInerney. If Brandon is charged as an adult he will face 52 yrs to life in prison. Vigils were held across the nation in memorial for Lawrence. We all , as members of  PFLAG , grieve at the loss of a boy so young due to a hate crime that we all , unfortunately , know so well. Let us all take a moment and say a prayer to our higher power for this child and for what our children face everyday.
 

Ric Weiland

We were all very saddened to learn of the passing of PFLAG supporter, Ric Weiland, in June 2006. Ric, one of the original employees of Microsoft, bequeathed $65 million dollars to a number of charitable organizations, PFLAG National among them. We will receive approximately 1.6 million dollars over 8 years (approximately 1.6 million dollars over 8 years. (approximately $200,000 per year). This represents about 7% of PFLAG's annual budget. All of us at PFLAG are grateful for Ric's gift and his appreciation for the role that PFLAG National plays in advancing GLBT equality.

Focus Group for an LGBT Retirement Community
Kansas City LGBT community members have an opportunity to participate in a focus group that will take the first step toward construction of a retirement facility for our community.
 Community members who are interested in working toward this goal are invited to come forward to participate in this very important project.  As a model, we will look at the first LGBT subsidized retirement community in the United States, Triangle Square in Los Angeles, and hear a presentation from Tony Salazar, of McCormack Baron Salazar, the builder of that community.  Triangle Square is a beautiful, $20 million facility, with amenities that are found in new-construction condominiums.
 Community members’ questions and input will be solicited.  For example, questions might be on a possible downtown location; easy access to transportation, grocery store, entertainment, restaurants; new construction versus a retrofitted older building.  These are just examples:  Please bring your questions and input to start the process and move it forward.
 
When:   Thursday, March 27, at 7 p.m.
 
Where:  Broadway Church, 3931 Washington, KCMO. 
 
The church fronts on Broadway.  Use the north entrance, on 39th Terrace.  Park on street, or there’s free parking in the Big Brothers & Sisters parking lot at the corner of  39th and Washington as well as in a small lot on the east side of Broadway, across the street from Vulcan’s Forge.
 For more information, contact Alfredo Parra at 816-472-8495 or .
 

THE
JOURNEY
HOME
Join the Heartland Men’s Chorus and their special guests, Wichita’s Heart of America Men’s Chorus, for the Kansas City premiere of a moving and inspirational song cycle by Robert Seeley (composer of Naked Man ). Weaving together their threads of hope and new ideals with the distinctive strands of our lives as gay men, Exile calls us to that place where the journey home always begins… the human heart.
 

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